Many times, sexy is confused with sleazy. Yes, there is a very fine line between the two but with the right set of guidelines, a woman can be sexy in a classy way. As a mom, it is so easy to lose that sexy edge you once had. I think it is so important t maintain this quality as a woman because when you feel desired you feel empowered. And there is nothing that can stop an empowered woman.
With my three tips, you can regain and maintain your sexy self in a non-trashy way. I’m a mom/stepmom and don’t want to embarrass my kids (or myself!). I have always followed these guidelines and they have completely helped me feel my sexiest self:
My Three Non-Sleazy Sexy Rules:
1. Pick one body part to accentuate. If you wear a low cut top, make sure everything else is covered up. One body part per outfit. And remember ladies, chest and legs are not the only sexy body parts we have at our disposal. Your back, collarbone or even toned arms can be extremely titillating.
2. Wear heels! I don’t care if you are tall r have back problems. Heels not only make you physically more attractive by lifting the booty and elongating your leg, they make you FEEL sexier too. You walk more slowly and in a more feminine manner. Buy she inserts if you have to or flats for the commute but when it counts, always count on your heels!
3. Slooow down. In this day and age, everyone moves a million miles an hour. Not sexy. Being slow, focused and composed is sexy. Walk more slowly, talk more slowly, and just be more aware of your surroundings. It’s all about poise and control when it comes to being sexy.
So no matter what your family situation is, these three rules are easy and doable. Your stepkids/kids won’t be ashamed of their new sexy stepmamma but instead be proud!